Author: Paul Stout
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My Current Home Workout
I have been passionate about fitness and exercise science for a long time. Throughout the years, I have tried many workout methods and programs. I first started paying attention to my fitness like a lot of young men do training for high school athletics. Once I turned 15, and saw that after all the pushups,…
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How I Will Avoid Raising a Biracial Child with Identity Issues
As our wedding date gets closer and closer, I’ve been reflecting on Chas, and I’s future child. With our dynamic, our child will have a unique set of characteristics and challenges to take on that will be specific to his/her identity. There has been an expansion in the number of biracial children expressing discontent with…
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If You Want to Attract a Black Woman as a White Man, Be Brad, Not B-Rad
Be Brad, not B-Rad from Malibu’s Most Wanted. There seems to be an idea among many white men that if they approach a black woman, they must adopt a bit of the mannerism, style, and personality of a black man. However, they understand that, by and prominent, black women are race loyal, so if they…
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An Awesome Ticket Challenge Idea for Couples to Try
Have you been looking for a way to strengthen your relationship connection while also appealing to your inherent desire to be rewarded for your efforts? If so, me and my fiancé’ have created and utilized a ticket system to help turn everyday tasks that need work into redeemable tickets for rewards such as bedroom fun,…
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A Killer American Psycho Book Review
“There is an idea of a Patrick Bateman, some kind of abstraction, but there is no real me, only an entity, something illusory, and though I can hide my cold gaze and you can shake my hand and feel flesh gripping yours and maybe you can even sense our lifestyles are probably comparable: I simply…
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The 4 Lessons Learned From Dating a Beautiful Black Goddess
Firstly, I would like to express the following sentiments from my perspective as a white man in a relationship with a black woman. These are the lessons that I have learned from dating a beautiful black goddess, eventually transitioning into a long-term relationship with her. If you’re interested in dating a beautiful black goddess, perhaps…
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Paul’s Beautiful Black Celebrity Crushes of the ’90s
This topic was generated from a conversation with Chas about our childhood crushes. Upon further review, we concluded that I was destined to be with a beautiful black woman as I’d admired their beauty my entire life. Eventually during that conversation, Chas challenged me to generate a list of my black crushes in the era…
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Paul’s Black Celebrity Crushes of the ’90s
“So, Chas challenged me to list my favorite black crushes in the era I grew up in, which was the 90s, as a millennial born in 1986.”
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A Dive Into Mulholland Drive – A Suspense Movie to Watch In 2022
Mulholland Drive has been my favorite film of all time for 15 years. Mulholland Drive is a poignant look at the underbelly of the glitzy and glamorous Hollywood Golden Age. The film is directed by David Lynch, starring Naomi Watts as the jitterbug contest-winning, naïve, and star-eyed protagonist, Betty. Betty opens the film with a…
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Paul’s Top Songs of All Time
Paul generated a vast list of his top songs. The list includes songs from various genres, such as blues, trip-hop, hip-hop, pop, rock, and metal.
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Paul’s Favorite Songs of All Time
Paul generated a vast list of his top songs. The list includes songs from various genres, such as blues, trip-hop, hip-hop, pop, rock, and metal.
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Paul’s Deep Thoughts During Our Early Miscarriage
“As Chastity’s fiancé, even though I did not feel the effects of the loss itself, I was profoundly affected in other ways. In the atmosphere of planning for a wedding, navigating around obstacles and challenges at work and adding on the prospect of a child seemed to be an insurmountable challenge. ”
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Paul’s Experience with an Early Miscarriage
“As Chastity’s fiancé, even though I did not feel the effects of the loss itself, I was profoundly affected in other ways. In the atmosphere of planning for a wedding, navigating around obstacles and challenges at work and adding on the prospect of a child seemed to be an insurmountable challenge. ”
Being Paul & Chastity 